| When Opposites No Longer Attract: Inspiring Stories of Eight Men and Women Who Left Straight Marriages and Came Out as Gay Contributor(s): Testa, Michael (Author) |
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ISBN: 0989591727 ISBN-13: 9780989591720 Publisher: Seeds Green Printing & Design OUR PRICE: $14.20 Product Type: Paperback Published: May 2014 |
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| BISAC Categories: - Biography & Autobiography | Lgbt |
| Physical Information: 0.29" H x 5.98" W x 9.02" (0.42 lbs) 134 pages |
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| Publisher Description: Twenty-five years ago, I was barely conscious that the gay world existed. Today, after having been married for more than a decade to a woman and having fathered children who still live with me, I know that I am a gay man. I've come out and now identify myself as gay. I decided to write this book because I run into a lot of men who are just like me as I used to be-married to a woman, often with children, and dabbling in having sex with other men. After starting to write this book, I decided to include the stories of women as well, primarily because I noticed that the lesbians I know who had been married to men handled the transition to homosexuality more gracefully and with more integrity than my male friends and I did. The idea for this book occurred to me one night a few years ago at a bar on Pittsburgh's South Side. I was with four friends. We met there every week to watch Will & Grace. As we drank our beer, I realized that we were five gay men, all divorced from women we had loved, and among us, we had fourteen children. Even though I had met plenty of married men on gay sites on-line, up until that night I had considered myself an anomaly. I had lived life as a heterosexual man and didn't realize I was gay until after I was married and had children. Before that night at the bar, I had been vaguely aware that my friends and I were meeting a lot of married men-men in straight marriages-in gay bars and other venues in which these supposedly straight men were looking to hook up with other men. That night in the South Side, it hit me that I was not an anomaly. There is something happening in American culture. People are questioning their sexual orientation. They are questioning whether they are who they thought they were. Right then, I decided to write this book. I would write the book I wish I had been able to read years ago when I was married to a woman and had young children and was starting to question whether I might be gay. The Kindle version of this book is available at (copy and paste into your browser): http: //www.amazon.com/When-Opposites-Longer-Attract-Inspiring-ebook/dp/B00K8WE024/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1400108612&sr=1-1 |